tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-56648216014669522202024-03-12T18:29:49.361-07:00PennmanshipPersonal Reflections with a Friendly TwistBrad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.comBlogger140125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-70237753926417567422016-08-21T17:12:00.001-07:002016-08-22T03:11:00.568-07:00The Consequences of Deciding Who Needs Our ServiceI recently completed a course called "The Mind-Body-Energy Toolkit". The class was mostly geared towards people working in mental health as clinicians (as I do in addition to my work at William Penn House), but I find that what I learn in these classes also has applications in all of our community work and in Quaker Workcamps. After all, when it comes to addressing the large social justice issues, we have to remember that we are all humans first, and as human we have some basic psychological processes that transcend all the silos we like to create to divide us. Unfortunately, I have often noticed that when it comes to service programs and creating funding, policies and protocols, basic truths about psychology are often neglected. How else to explain why very smart people continue to address issues such as stigma by targeting people for service and engagement. It only reinforces the stigma.<br />
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In this class, the instructor, <a href="http://www.doctor-bob.net/" target="_blank">Dr. Robert Schwarz</a>, a specialist in Comprehensive Energy Psychology, effectively demonstrated how moods and thoughts influence energy - our own as well as that of those around us. In class demonstrations, "energy" was measured by muscle resistance. People had less energy both when they were asked to think thoughts, and when we were asked to think negative thoughts of volunteers, unbeknownst to them. We all know this: the more optimistic or good we feel about things, the more energy we have. But what are the implications of this when it comes to how we engage in well-meaning service work from a model that often relies on assumptions of what people need without knowing them?<br />
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It is both an honor and a responsibility we take seriously, and that responsibility includes trying to <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsGf80xr-eroPOK35JCuyKfW9r0ep3lP6xrTW68cuKQy4Mon_qXFfA0kqXrsQzDJ2yKv58aLTfGnM2_oq5Gwuo7Mw7cF61JAF97XBx-hoWQuPK1N0yRRFEUnv-kqeeYZV1moToqjC04P4/s1600/hands.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="186" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsGf80xr-eroPOK35JCuyKfW9r0ep3lP6xrTW68cuKQy4Mon_qXFfA0kqXrsQzDJ2yKv58aLTfGnM2_oq5Gwuo7Mw7cF61JAF97XBx-hoWQuPK1N0yRRFEUnv-kqeeYZV1moToqjC04P4/s200/hands.jpg" width="200" /></a>So, as much as understanding history, and some of the disciplines of environment, climate change, culture, history and nutrition when we set out to do service, it is perhaps as important to consider the role of psychology, mirroring neurons and energy as a primer of service learning and experiential learning. It's not what we think, but how we connect, that matters. Planting the seeds of awareness about this are important. As Quakers are fond of saying, "There is that of God in All." Mirroring neurons flowing from positive thoughts and open hearts help to create the energy to truly let this be of peacemaking service to the world.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-45757827824828634002016-08-05T05:29:00.003-07:002016-08-07T16:05:13.667-07:00Words Are Never Enough: Reflections from Pine Ridge<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
The wind started shaking my tent at 1:58AM. We had to
drop people off at the airport 100 miles away by 4:30AM. It was as if the wind
knew, and was acting as Mother Earth’s alarm clock, helping us to take care of
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time we are on Pine Ridge. Energy, spirit and relationships are strong, and it
is easier to be present in the moment. Wind announces that it is coming so that
you can stop what you are doing and revel in its cooling presence. White cows emerge
just as they are inquired about; dogs warn us to prepare for storms in the most
remarkable ways – knocking on doors; cars get stuck in mud just in time for us
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ever-present nature, the natural beauty of the Rez and the Badlands, weather elements, plants and animals (including horses joining us for dinner) all help us deepen our connection to all that is around us in ways that are not always felt in our daily routines. They are what invite a downpour of rain to become a communal shower, and deeply appreciating a nap in the shade. They are what get people to wake up at 5AM just to watch the sunrise or fall into frequent moments of silence and worship.<br />
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And there are the remarkable and inspiring people.
Shannon Freed, her husband Adam Weasel and his father Gerald Weasel, through
their company Earth Tipi, are working to be a demonstration of sustainability
in Manderson while also developing a place for people to come together to
explore, be a part of, and help build a sense of community. Mike Sierra and his
wife and the small farm way off the beaten path in Oglala that is a model of
healthy, organic vegetables grown local – something we saw more signs of this
year than we have seen in past years. Reva High Horse and her niece and husband Cindy
and Dwayne High Horse, carrying on the tradition of the Sundance in a way that,
over the course of a few short days, builds deep and lasting relationships –
one big family that extends to include all of us who came together, often as
strangers or acquaintances, as we explore our own faith, values and traditions
while learning those of the Lakota through fellowship, work and stories. Our tasks may not always make sense to us, but we learn to respect their importance to others. Respect is a necessary component of peace and justice work. Through
it all, there are also the struggles of addiction, unemployment, and idleness.
As one of our members said during our last worship-sharing, this is real life,
not the materialistic, frenetic lives we tend to live when we leave the
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“Are these the Quakers?” asked one of the leaders of the
High Horse Sundance, pointing to the tents that housed 20 of us from a mix of
Friends entities that included a private school (Sidwell), a college
(Wilmington) and a Monthly Meeting (Downingtown, PA). Mike Gray is the constant
Quaker presence, as he has been for over 20 years. Through William Penn Quaker
Workcamps, we try to do our part to help maintain that Quaker presence – not
just in numbers but in our faith and practice. We are a witness, and our own
worship becomes something for others to witness and to participate in, just as
we participate in sweats and song. As we heard from a Lakota man who works as a
park ranger at Badlands National Park’s Lakota-managed division, we all
worship one God, just in different ways. The hospitality expressed at the High Horse Sundance is a
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We have now all returned home, with the exception of Mike
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so. We have moved back to beds from
nights on the ground, sometimes in tents, sometimes under the stars, or in a
few cases, in a tipi. We have washed off most of the dirt that we had become a
bit accustomed to (although will likely still find remnants of dirt, grass and
bugs in our clothes for a while), and the facial hair we may not otherwise
sport is shaved. It is ironic that being so used to not cleaning ourselves can
lead to feeling so cleansed. We were wisely counseled by Rosebud elder Charlene
to listen to and pursue our dreams and our purpose. Perhaps not being so concerned
with earthly things like what to wear and how to look opens way for doing this.
Our dreams will be perhaps driven more by our hearts that are now fuller,
our love and our tears. We are hopefully more whole, more grounded, more
intentional and more respectful as we re-engage our minds to our purpose. We
are also challenged to step up our support for the Lakota and other native
Americans – whether it is calling on Congress to stop cutting Indian healthcare
funds or fully funding Indian colleges (both of which are treaty commitments
that continue to be violated), or calling on President Obama to pardon Leonard Peltier
before he leaves office in a few months, or directly supporting the work of
Earth Tipi or Mike Sierra. <br />
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William Penn set out to create the Peaceable Kingdom. We
have a long way to go, but we saw glimpses of what is possible the last few
weeks. We hope that more F/friends will join us so we can maintain – and
perhaps grow – the presence of the Quakers on the ground next summer and in
spirit and advocacy throughout the years.
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<i>From July 20 to
August 4, William Penn Quaker Workcamps was on Pine Ridge. Many thanks to Mike
Gray, Shannon Fried, Adam Weasel, Mike Sierra, Reva High Horse, and Jeff
Domenick and Sue McKenna from Downingtown Friends Meeting. And to all who
joined us, what a ride! You were all fantastic. Let’s keep it going. More pictures can be seen on William Penn Quaker Workcamps' facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/williampennquakerworkcamps/photos/?tab=album&album_id=293764887644760)</i></div>
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Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-37816515056486079152016-01-15T08:13:00.000-08:002016-01-15T14:04:01.102-08:00Fear of Tears"I had to turn away. Otherwise, I was going to start crying." <br />
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These were the words of a recent WPQW participant who was in DC with her college for an alternative break week. We were taking time for reflection about what insights, experiences, or wisdom they had noticed from their time with us, so far. The activities included participating in Our Daily Bread (a fellowship community breakfast with people from all walks of life, including many who sleep on the streets and in shelters), garden winterization and soil prep for spring planting, and street outreach with people that are homeless.<br />
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Among the insights of other folks was the realization, garnered from their 1:1 time with people, that listening to people, simply engaging in conversation, being with people where they are, matters. In this was also the awareness of the fact that mental illness has high co-morbidity with the homeless population, but to really connect we have to have a relationship. Others had reflections that it all can seem overwhelming as we seek answers (I maintain that it is not answers that keep us moving, but the next good question), and that the real work for social justice has to continue in their daily lives, not just as an alternative vacation.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiN31GkEU0dK0oWtySrZZZ-yZvtenftFBd7jJ2cHJNqMorau6aGSfIJiD9Y6-UVbkBKaW6i5fZoSmX_Vt884lTjdHapBwVhctzFMB5-F0NCJTUOsYRWtd4dz9Yr9E1eI0GZPp176BLTcc/s1600/thelifeofatear.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiN31GkEU0dK0oWtySrZZZ-yZvtenftFBd7jJ2cHJNqMorau6aGSfIJiD9Y6-UVbkBKaW6i5fZoSmX_Vt884lTjdHapBwVhctzFMB5-F0NCJTUOsYRWtd4dz9Yr9E1eI0GZPp176BLTcc/s200/thelifeofatear.jpg" width="200" /></a>But it was the role of tears where things got real. One student spoke - somewhat apologetically - through her tears about how a homeless woman told her that she and her fellow-students reminded the woman of her own daughters. It brings it home - there are families, loved ones, and whole life stories that remain invisible. Then, there was the statement by the student about needing to turn away from all the stimulus. She said it was overwhelming. I suspect, and we talked about it, that what was overwhelming was not what was going on around her, but what was welling up inside of her, perhaps a mixture of anger, sadness, guilt, disgust, even love, and her all-too-common belief that we should not be emotional. And it is the fear of tears, the sadness, perhaps intellectualized as a sense of weakness, that we seem the most uncomfortable with, and it often leads us to want to flee.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKGj_dthebtWddoA_Cyky7whK_Jvrr8wFfQscVxyk5MOGD5vBSsVgiUHI1iHGhvJlaxxlbhZs4XA79jyMuyoJ7OkSilsmKKKliVv1MwPQO05ZJs_9a-aLOJVbICNdCuCIYMUKIV8-6jzc/s1600/1794333_orig.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="105" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKGj_dthebtWddoA_Cyky7whK_Jvrr8wFfQscVxyk5MOGD5vBSsVgiUHI1iHGhvJlaxxlbhZs4XA79jyMuyoJ7OkSilsmKKKliVv1MwPQO05ZJs_9a-aLOJVbICNdCuCIYMUKIV8-6jzc/s200/1794333_orig.jpg" width="200" /></a>And yet, we need to be with these emotions, fully present not just with our heads but with our hearts, embracing them, not fighting them, if we are truly to engage in the good work of trying to make the world a better place. We can talk about statistics of poverty, mental illness, health indicators, etc., but as Emma Goldman said, "The demand for equal rights in every vocation of life is just and fair; but after all, the most vital right is to love and be loved." To be loving means being able to laugh and cry. When we turn away from our tears when they naturally occur, we turn away from our emotions, and we turn away from being present with others. But when we let it flow, we strengthen ourselves, become more present and more whole to carry on the good work.<br />
<br />Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-29551822480511094072016-01-06T08:58:00.001-08:002016-01-06T09:00:45.517-08:00A Friendly Reference: A Spectrum of Experiences in Campus Ministry<div dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">This blog post is here to serve that purpose. Those of us within the Quaker tradition I’m sure have all recognized that many college campuses are places ripe for interested seekers in new religious traditions. It is always hard to approach these institutions of learning, especially if you have few personal connections within those campus communities. Even harder is reconciling the Quaker discomfort surrounding the idea of proselytizing. I won’t talk about concerns that others have raised with me because my answer is always the same. I have no interest in harassing others into joining my own religious movement, but rather I wish to provide a convenient reference for students who have never interacted with Quakers before and to provide a space for students to enjoy worship in the Quaker tradition. I am a reference first and a friend and confidant second. </span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">I have had the lucky happenstance of living in a city that has many colleges to choose from and a large Quaker meeting that sees students exploring it as an option. In setting up both ministry programs, I sent out emails to the Friends Meeting of Washington listserv asking if any students, faculty, or administrators might have an interest in having a campus ministry group at their college. In the case of George Washington, I was lucky to find that indeed a student was interested, but sadly it took a little while for us to get connected. In that space of time, I emailed members of the administration who told me that George Washington University preferred that worship groups be students led, now you see why I put my title in quotations. I have been lucky in that the student that runs the worship there is driven, charismatic, and passionate about Quakerism. While we bounce ideas off of each other and I am there to support her, I would prefer to give her credit as she leads the group on that campus. I design fliers, show up to meeting, and develop personal relationships with people who attend our meeting, but she is really the driving force there. Georgetown is another scenario entirely. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">When I sent an email to the listserv at Friends Meeting of Washington for Georgetown, a member of the campus administration replied. She helped me arrange a meeting with the chaplaincy office and after meeting with other members of the campus administration, it was determined that Georgetown was indeed interested in setting up a Quaker Chaplaincy. Because they have an official chaplaincy program, I am lucky enough to be invited to a number of campus events. Chaplains at Georgetown have a once-a-month meeting to discuss developments within the different religious communities and to share effective ways of supporting students. Georgetown has also asked that I run a </span><span style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">scheduled weekly worship, as opposed to one with an alternating date and time. This has been helpful because the students who attend our worship know when and where it happens every week.</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> At George Washington I was never allowed to post fliers, whereas Georgetown allows me to, something I always wanted to do so as to spare the student leader the hours of work. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">When I first started, I would usually just set up a half hour long service of silent waiting worship. I found that students usually only gave messages after they had seen me give them. It didn’t particularly lend itself to growing interest or engaging students. After starting at Georgetown, I tried doing worship sharing with a query among the group of students. The query that first night was:</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14px; font-style: italic; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">"Do I treat conflict as an opportunity for growth, and address it with careful attention? Do I seek to recognize and respect the Divine in those with whom I have a basic disagreement? Do I look for ways to reaffirm in action and attitude my love for the one with whom I am in conflict? In what ways might I seek to do that?" </span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br class="kix-line-break" /></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.666666666666666px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It really sparked some engaging discussion and allowed for us to develop a stronger bond. Mixing worship sharing and regular worship into our monthly schedule really helped, and I can only strongly recommend that it be considered for introducing new folks to Quaker process and tradition. </span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-27761060141854796462015-11-24T14:22:00.000-08:002015-11-24T18:15:23.898-08:00Equality, Race and GraceI remember a few years ago on a Quaker Workcamp, we were having a conversation about the various colleges that the students on the program were considering attending. One of the young folks mentioned that he would probably go to a prestigious university because his family had a long list of graduates from that school (siblings, parents, grandparents) , even though he might not otherwise have qualified for that university. The conversation turned to the paradox of wanting to work for equality but, at the same time, being a product of and beneficiary of privilege. "Do you think I should not go to that school if I get accepted?", asked the young man. After a moment of reflection, I said that, no, you should not turn down that acceptance but to, instead, commit to trying to balance the equation when in a position of taking action. For example, I mentioned that, when buying a car, perhaps buying a slightly lower costing car, and put that extra money towards a scholarship to support someone else or, if in a position of hiring someone, rather than hiring the candidate with the best education or best suit, consider the one who journeyed the longest to get to the interview.<br>
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So as I was recently attending a church service at National Community Church, I listened to <a href="http://www.andersonspeaks.com/" target="_blank">Dr. David Anderson</a> giving a powerful sermon about "Gracism" (as the spirit-led counterbalance to "Racism" that he defines as "to think, feel, or act negatively of others because of color, class or culture"). One of his seven points to practicing gracism is "I will consider you." His example was to recognize that a car dealer may offer a better deal to a man than a woman, and we act with grace by doing what we can to correct this by sharing with you my benefits. I think it is essentially what I was trying to articulate on that Workcamp. I also think it would be a great lesson for so many of the private schools we work with - rather than shame privilege, have the conversation about how we can effectively share that privilege with those who do not have it. As Dr. Anderson has listed it, this is identified as "Having Equal Concern".<br>
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It is sermons like this that I find amazingly inspirational and challenging. Even though I hear these kinds of sermons at places like NCC, they are what lead me to Quakerism. To practice Gracism is to see that of God in all and truly live that out. Of course, as a gay man, knowing that the founder of this church has been, to put it mildly, less than affirming about gay marriage (sending out the double-message that being gay is a sin, but we are called to be loving, as if my higher purpose is to be straight, as he did on the <a href="https://thekojonnamdishow.org/shows/2014-04-17/contemporary-religion-capitol-hill" target="_blank">Kojo Nnamdi Show</a> last year), and "sexual identity and orientation" is glaringly missing in the definition of racism, I cannot go all in here. I think the silence about sexual orientation can perhaps do much harm by continuing exclude truly all people. But having said that, I know that if places like NCC want to truly practice gracism, I'm in for that, knowing that I can still let my life speak and find true joy in the relationships I have formed there, and in that, find more ways to bring that grace to what we strive to bring in our William Penn Quaker Workcamps. Sometimes, being open with the messiness (or 'living in the tension', as if often expressed) really seems to be where life happens.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-9435343227382081502015-11-03T06:03:00.000-08:002015-11-03T06:08:50.545-08:00Mindfulness in the Garden<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioov8U06SspaNdvtUBB4Tmg5DuX3DOfx4l0ptkY7UCoQmQpm2GzA15fM_ZrkAQluY-2ZlwRuKc0Ucd5r9eZRaS-psFDFTkcl21W0p78xBLU17DKNuaS3t5tY_BdK7YcJqvu-r0UNifOjs/s1600/Wangari1.Nov.2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioov8U06SspaNdvtUBB4Tmg5DuX3DOfx4l0ptkY7UCoQmQpm2GzA15fM_ZrkAQluY-2ZlwRuKc0Ucd5r9eZRaS-psFDFTkcl21W0p78xBLU17DKNuaS3t5tY_BdK7YcJqvu-r0UNifOjs/s200/Wangari1.Nov.2015.jpg" width="200" /></a>We recently spent about 90 minutes with ten 9th grade students from Sidwell Friends School at Wangari Gardens, cleaning out garden plots and organizing community spaces in preparation for winter. It's amazing what can get accomplished when you have multiple hands to help out.<br />
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Among the tasks was to pick kale that was still growing in abundance from one of our plots. Kale is one of the plants I have learned to appreciate since getting involved in gleaning and gardening here in DC. It's a low-maintenance plant that produces from spring through the hardest of frosts in the winter, and is also good for you.<br />
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Another student said she will take with her the image of the light reflecting around us as the sun was setting. "I don't usually get to see the sun set", she stated. It's not that the sun does not set every day; it's that we are so often busy doing other things to notice what is happening around us.<br />
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These are two simple examples and affirmations of how easy it is to experientially teach mindfulness. We had not talked about mindfulness, but these two students got it, and by taking a moment to intentionally connect with it, it starts to infiltrate their being. As good friend Janie Boyd has taught me, spending time in the garden is good for the soul. It's as simple as that. I will get to work with many of these students once a month over the school year. I look forward to deepening this practice with them as we strive to do good in the world.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-6679271549855615442015-10-28T07:00:00.000-07:002015-10-28T07:00:40.578-07:00Investing and Community Economics<div dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.6667px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">At that point a local consultant from green eagle consulting sat and talked about a number of great efforts to help the DC community such as micro-lending and smaller investment groups one could support. After the talk, I went and spoke with the individual and asked him, “is there any particular way in which people are combating gentrification at an investor or economic level?” to which the he answered “not that I know of”. So what has been the current recourse for residents facing the loss of their homes to high rents and property taxes? According to </span><a href="http://dc.curbed.com/tags/gentrification-watch" style="background-color: white; color: #1155cc; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.6667px; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Curbed</span></a><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.6667px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">, in Takoma Park, residents have protested and have told authorities about the raising rates, but so far they have seen little success. So what is an organization like ours supposed to do? Follow the words of George Fox by “walking cheerfully over the world, answering that of God in everyone”, which requires us to remain active in our community. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-13399713125744443012015-10-12T08:19:00.000-07:002015-10-12T12:03:38.771-07:00"Faith in the Process is more important than the Outcome"? <table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Keith Barrett X with his wife, Veronica<br />
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Jesus, Goddess, and Chief, saying<br />
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As I sat in Meeting for Worship on a spectacular fall day, I listened to a few messages enamored with Quaker process. These messages included that decisions made without Quaker process were not as significant as those done through process and, from one message, faith in the process is more important than the outcomes. Sitting among a 100% white congregation on the day between the Million Man March and Columbus Day, two events that are stark reminders of enslavement, suppression and discrimination, I wondered about these messages. I sometimes think that Friends can be too enamored with the process, especially as it is so often practiced among "like-minded" people. I think that the gift of Quaker process is when it is practiced out in the world, among people of very different opinions, beliefs, cultures and priorities. This is when true peace happens. And this is also when faith in another Quaker sentiment is vital: going "as Way opens". <br />
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It was with all this rattling around in my brain that I walked into William Penn House the next day with a sense that the weekend had been a bit chaotic. Some of the chaos was because a family from Montana was sent to us on Saturday by a local TV reporter with an understanding that a local church was going to cover their lodging fees. As I started to try and make the connections between the various parts of this story, I met a remarkable family. Keith Barrett X and his wife, Veronica Lynn Illig-Barrett X, had journeyed 60 hours from the Flathead Reservation in Montana to be a part of the Million Man March. Keith told me that he was unable to attend the first one 20 years ago because he was in prison, but pledged to make the next one. Despite the economics, he made it with a bit of faith in the goodness of people - going "As Way Opens". Keith shared with me his story - growing up in Beaver Falls, PA, Los Angeles and Phoenix, the son of a man in the music industry (who worked with the likes of Barry White). At 18, breaking out on his own, he moved to Washington State. He bounced around between WA and AZ until 11 years ago when he met his wife. Keith is part Blackfoot, and his wife is Flathead, so with this lineage, they made their way to Montana.<br />
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As Keith and I talked, he spoke of his belief that good people and oppressors come in all shapes, sizes and colors, and his stay at William Penn House was an opportunity to show that to his kids. He shared that he is a member of the Nation of Islam, but believes in one God that loves all of us. He showed me pictures of the 1/2 acre community garden he put in this spring, and had his 5 year-old son tell me about the lettuce, cabbage, onions, corn and tomatoes they are growing. It was an energizing connection.<br />
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Will we actually get the fees to cover this family's lodging? We don't know yet. Is this a vital part of continuing our missional presence in the Nation's Capital? Absolutely! Do we have the means to cover this ourselves (although a special thanks does go to <a href="http://wjla.com/station/people/sam-ford" target="_blank"><span style="color: black;"><b>Sam Ford from ABC7 News</b></span></a> for covering a portion of this)? Not yet. My deepest faith is that way will open for us to continue to do this. It was not Quaker process that brought all this together, but Quaker faith.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-11131568661863252362015-09-29T05:10:00.002-07:002015-10-04T10:28:33.484-07:00Prayers for, prayers with, and just praying<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3qXfb_r2buqS3ApxCIcRMi0UmTAe3FEcRqkGo8qbEDrGQPpLVJ33kWRuwDRMraRnjW2tkJ7KlKYInt5_6pRoQzQWVwLTG7Vh5_B1lGFqzGDtaagPQaNvvaRbQPD0AqAhO-qdVSMPqC_Y/s1600/prayer_request_button.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="88" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3qXfb_r2buqS3ApxCIcRMi0UmTAe3FEcRqkGo8qbEDrGQPpLVJ33kWRuwDRMraRnjW2tkJ7KlKYInt5_6pRoQzQWVwLTG7Vh5_B1lGFqzGDtaagPQaNvvaRbQPD0AqAhO-qdVSMPqC_Y/s200/prayer_request_button.png" width="200" /></a>"Is it ok if we ask the people we are serving to pray for them?" asked the man on the other end of the line. I had been contacted to set up some service opportunities for people coming to DC on church missions on behalf of his Christian service organization. I paused. In that pause, he asked "do Quakers not do this?" I answered that my silence was not so much about the "prayer", but the "for". It was something I had not ever articulated, but had been struggling with. To pray for people based on assumptions of need because of a perceived condition, even though we did not know them (yet), did not sit easily with me. What I said was that I think it would be great to ask people to join them in prayer, but with an openness that we are praying together, and be open that the person may not want to do this.<br />
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The other day, as Pope Francis made his rounds in DC, two things struck me: As he met with John Boehner, he asked Boehner to pray for him. Boehner was floored by the gesture. Usually, in Boehner's view, a person asked the Pope for prayers. (It was with some interest that Boehner resigned the next day). Moments later, the Pope was out on the Capitol porch, asking all people for their prayers, but "if there are among you those who do not believe or cannot pray to <b>send good wishes my way</b>." What a statement of humility.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEighU1pt-YVQ7NQC67pH6DjblnkWvhQF8Hl-UBT-PktyHyl1LeAgJdb4tp60MlYmvJMe3jV8KlJRz9ZvCNN1Jb6TYb_nVVIT-B8JyEvYgtS_74mU2BW08PjEIKdwskhYMHuSWwk5vSLMHY/s1600/an_invitation_to_prayer.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="108" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEighU1pt-YVQ7NQC67pH6DjblnkWvhQF8Hl-UBT-PktyHyl1LeAgJdb4tp60MlYmvJMe3jV8KlJRz9ZvCNN1Jb6TYb_nVVIT-B8JyEvYgtS_74mU2BW08PjEIKdwskhYMHuSWwk5vSLMHY/s200/an_invitation_to_prayer.jpg" width="200" /></a>Over the past year, I have been an infrequent attender of <a href="http://www.theaterchurch.com/" target="_blank">The Theater Church</a> (National Community Church), a non-denominational "rock-n-roll" church. I struggle with some of their theological message, especially when sentiments of "my God will beat your God" or "therefore, you must proclaim Jesus as your savior" show up, usually in the songs. But many of the folks I have met from this church inspire me with their actions. When I was recovering from surgery in 2014, I got calls from some of them and knew they were praying for me. But when I am with any of them, I revel in the opportunity to pray with them - it gives me hope and energy. And as I listen to the words, I am mindful that, when I was laid low, they did not pray for me, but they prayed that I be comforted through the journey.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2P72CvPlIeqi-dNoJXG6FNRFYujPJAxM8cDpwtUbUMvcbWTjh1zi53EdVPI62i0TkMI-FqXdVxoOmjg7NjtBoM2GfemBnryW4i-HYjA6pjJA6yptfgG9sXDuaNv0CTfKUSo67MBrQce4/s1600/Centering-Prayer-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="121" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2P72CvPlIeqi-dNoJXG6FNRFYujPJAxM8cDpwtUbUMvcbWTjh1zi53EdVPI62i0TkMI-FqXdVxoOmjg7NjtBoM2GfemBnryW4i-HYjA6pjJA6yptfgG9sXDuaNv0CTfKUSo67MBrQce4/s200/Centering-Prayer-2.jpg" width="200" /></a>Quakers use the term "hold in the Light" often in a way that means the same thing, at least to me, as "say prayers for...". When someone is clearly ailing to the point that their life circumstances are altered, such as through illness, I get it, although as someone who has been on the receiving end of these prayers, I have been uncomfortable with it. I sometimes think it would be better to pray for strength to make the world a better place, rather than for my recovery. But, more to the point, when we gather in the name of service and/or fellowship, I love the idea of taking time to pray/hold in the light/be thankful with folks. I think it comes from a place of equality - that we are all in this together, rather than suggesting that one has greater "prayer authority" over another. Furthermore, when we might pray for the betterment of the conditions in which someone lives that are the results of generations of suppression, exploitation and genocide, might we not want to actually pray for forgiveness for living off the fruits of such actions? <br />
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These are not easy things, but I suspect that prayers/holding in the light is not meant to be easy. Increasingly, I think praying "for" is too easy, but to be in prayer - and fellowship - with people is really what it's all about. These things should not be just about providing comfort to the discomforted, but to discomfort the comfortable. May our prayers, holding in the light, or good wishes then be about having the strength to carry on in the face of the hard work to be done.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-78475153198643534612015-09-15T09:31:00.000-07:002015-09-15T10:02:31.812-07:00When it comes to Service Learning, Don't Forget the BasicsYou have to learn to walk before you can run. We all know that, but when it comes to the world of service, especially as it increasingly becomes a fixture in many schools and churches, we don't apply this basic principle very well. As I take time to reflect on the past year's activities and turn attention to what's next, I am mindful of this tenet as well as how often it is overlooked in service work.<br />
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People who want to make a difference in the world often want to have a deep, meaningful relationship with people "in need". The reality is that expecting to do this for a short period of time is not only difficult but also problematic and raises ethical concerns. It can replicate patterns of abandonment that many people already experience. And when people doing service say "I know I am getting more out of this than the people I am serving", this is not a good thing - unless the follow-up statement is "I'm going to spend the rest of my life trying to correct this imbalance."<br />
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One of the ways to address this, from the outset, is to make sure that before people are sent out to do service work, they have some basic skills. These skills include listening to others as well as to their own anxieties, being patient, learning to connect with people as people, not as a group with presumed needs based on material conditions that only materialism can correct. These relationship skills are further enhanced when we learn to appreciate the inherent wisdom that all people have from their life experiences, and when we can connect at this level - with our hearts - truly amazing this can happen. The real wonder of this work is when we realize our gift is not to fix a problem, but to simply be in fellowship, let a relationship form, and realize we serve something greater than ourselves - a more just world - when we do this well. But sometimes, when we do this work well, what can arise is the need to fix something. The question is, are service participants equipped with the skills to do this, or has room been made to learn this?<br />
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What skills am I referring to:<br />
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<li>hammering a nail into a piece of wood</li>
<li>using a saw to cut wood</li>
<li>be able to paint a wall neatly and clean a brush</li>
<li>use a lawn mower</li>
<li>cook a meal</li>
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These are pretty basic, but often lacking. And yet, when we are engaging with people on fixed <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqEGEsyKndede_waosKHUw2hb5w7VS_EfdwK0Q_Lw-WOlFViL31NBs43wUgsHOJGg-Xa5fWXaA6EMuardJ1FwkRuvhKo8f4SKyMzUdSgWT5FiKk38AuGmpjEinGlrlZtBngiKJXZEWr_w/s1600/sawing.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqEGEsyKndede_waosKHUw2hb5w7VS_EfdwK0Q_Lw-WOlFViL31NBs43wUgsHOJGg-Xa5fWXaA6EMuardJ1FwkRuvhKo8f4SKyMzUdSgWT5FiKk38AuGmpjEinGlrlZtBngiKJXZEWr_w/s200/sawing.jpg" width="150" /></a>When we know that our service is to help make a room brighter (painting), or a lawn better (mowing), we have much more realistic expectations of ourselves and our capacities. This past summer, we had two students from a DC private school who learned some of these basics (as well as how to get around on the Metro, opening up a "whole new world", as one student put it). They also affirmed for us at William Penn House that we need to be teaching these more as we require students to do service. My hope is that, this coming year, we can work closer with groups to develop these both before they come to us or, before we go out to serve, we learn some of these.<br />
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<br />Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-48756244235286332792015-06-27T14:48:00.001-07:002015-06-30T14:42:52.761-07:00Celebrating Diversity, Wondering about Equality<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuHE9qPNfmxjuA6faru2kEcAJzSny4LPqTZo2b30bzCpOJvXFOJ74OL5ufJuQagzbjs_bHmLA94rM63c8kc-PGUtyOJa9RVD0W9dM3ZcypoCOhTQ1E2BwvBsBKeBE-AOHhFxjpROcRSa4/s1600/gaymarriage.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="125" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuHE9qPNfmxjuA6faru2kEcAJzSny4LPqTZo2b30bzCpOJvXFOJ74OL5ufJuQagzbjs_bHmLA94rM63c8kc-PGUtyOJa9RVD0W9dM3ZcypoCOhTQ1E2BwvBsBKeBE-AOHhFxjpROcRSa4/s200/gaymarriage.gif" width="200" /></a>Earlier in the day, the Supreme Court had announced its decision paving the way for same gender marriage throughout the US. The energy of the happy-hour crowd was euphoric. Smile, hugs, "happy marriage day" messages. A definite day of significant progress. Among the crowd were men who clearly had lived through much of the long-struggle for gay rights mixed in with the young generation that will largely benefit from the struggle. I wondered how much the latter appreciated the work of the former or, as we see with the HIV/AIDS pandemic, how much of this will simply be taken for granted, just as my generation did not fully appreciate the struggles of the depression of my grandparents. Also among the crowd were some lonely figures, some of whom will no-doubt join the countless other people in the world - gay and straight - who can legally marry in wondering if and perhaps hoping for the "right one" to come along. And, this being DC, no doubt many of the celebrants are among the rich and powerful - the already well-to-do.<br />
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As I left the noisy, celebratory scene and walked out onto the street, it was back to reality. Among this reality scene were many people who continue to live on the fringes of society - people who sleep on the streets, ask for donations, perhaps suffer from the neglect of a society that often seems to place greater value on acquisition of wants instead of helping meet each others' needs. I don't say this with smugness. I, too partake in this to some extent. I think I do better every year, but I still have a long way to go. <br />
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This is why, to me, the ruling the day before basically keeping the Affordable Healthcare Act in tact, was more significant. This was one of the few rulings in the past few years that addressed the biggest inequity that we continue to ignore - economic inequality (as did the <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/29/opinion/affordable-housing-racial-isolation.html?_r=0" target="_blank">Fair Housing ruling </a>earlier in the week that was a reminder of how institutional our racist/classist policies still are). This was the program that Obama promised when he was running for President, and the one that he spent enormous political capital on when he knew he had it, and he has paid the price for since then in three House election cycles. Now, the Supreme Court has solidified this, helping to ensure income inequality is less a factor in accessing healthcare. Given other Supreme Court decisions removing voting rights and anti-discrimination protections that are routinely used against the poorest among us, this was huge. <br />
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So, while I absolutely celebrate and understand the significance of the marriage ruling, I cringe to think that the celebrations of this are deluding us from getting the real work done for justice. I cringe to think how many gays and lesbians will indulge in spending sprees on costly weddings and unneeded gifts, sending a message that "we have arrived", when the reality is we have a long way to go.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-3553791848792389802015-05-02T10:29:00.000-07:002015-05-02T10:29:45.516-07:00Radical Hospitality and Voices for Justice<div style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;">
One of the amazing things about spending time at William Penn House is the incredible range of people that stay with us that we get to meet. We get people from all continents, coming for everything business and touring to learning, advocacy and memorializing commemorating the 40th anniversary of the end of the Vietnam War. Every once in a while, we get folks who have a very special purpose: survival. So it was a quiet Friday, the 1st of May. I got a call from one of our friends in fellowship from the Southeast White House, Ernest Clover, about Reath Tang, a "brother", as Ernest called him, who was here in DC to try and engage any DC-based support in peace and reconciliation in South Sudan while also reuniting his family. The call to us was simpley because he needs lodging for about a week. We have space for a few days, so we welcomed Reath in Friday afternoon. </div>
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Zach Yoder, one of our interns, spent a few minutes with Reath to learn more about the situation. Reath Tang was a member of Parliament in South Sudan before the civil war started. He made a reputation for opposing the president Salva Kiir Mayardit when the he tried to push the parliament around. Reath strongly believes in the separation of powers, which has been steadily eroded by President Kirr and says that the current parliament is just a “rubber stamp” assembly.</div>
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Once the civil war started, the President’s militia targeted Reath. This was because of his reputation of opposition. Furthermore Reath is from the Nuer tribe and Kirr is from the Dinka tribe-the two largest tribes in South Sudan. Militia men came to Reath’s house looking for him but he was not there having been warned to leave the house. Instead they killed his brother and shot his sister in law in the head—a wound which she survived. </div>
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Shortly before the fighting broke out, Reath had obtained a visa to visit the US for the National Prayer Breakfast. After the attempt on his life, he used this visa to flee to safety. If he had not gotten the visa in such a fortunate time he said, “I would be hiding in the bush of South Sudan right now.” His wife and 3 and 5 year old children were able to flee to a refugee camp in Uganda where they are now. For 8-9 months after the fighting broke out, he was not able to talk to them and didn’t know if they were alive or dead. Now his ultimate goal is to bring them to stay with him in the US. <span style="font-size: 12.8000001907349px;">Reath is still in the process of applying for asylum but has been able to obtain a work permit. He wants to establish himself in DC and become an advocate for South Sudan. He wants 3 main things to be brought about for his country: </span></div>
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<li><span style="font-size: 12.8000001907349px;">He wants Ugandan forces currently fighting in the country on the side of the President to leave. The Ugandan government is currently participating in the civil war while also acting as one of the mediators for the peace process. Reath says that none of the countries that neighbor South Sudan can serve impartially in the negotiations. They all have vested interests in Sudan and it’s wealth of natural resources, including oil. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12.8000001907349px;">Reath wants the content of a African Union investigation into Human Rights abuses to be made public. He says that until people are held accountable for what they have done, there can be no reconciliation. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12.8000001907349px;">Reath wants the US to condemn President Kirr's government as illegitimate. The South Sudanese parliament recently extended Kirr’s term for another 3 years to avoid an election. This single act is clearly illegitimate and should concern the US who invested so much in South Sudanese independence. The US has not acted before when Kirr killed 20,000 people in a single week and continued to kill 30,000 more over time, but Reath recognizes that violations of basic democratic procedure is something that the US might be convinced it should pay attention to.</span></li>
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When stories of globalized terror and genocide show up at your front door in person, they take on new meaning. For us at William Penn House, hosting someone like Reath is both an honor and an opportunity to try and share his story, so here it is. If you feel led to help Reath get his story out there, please pass this on. If you feel led to help, we also welcome any contributions to cover his lodging fees ($200). At a minimum, holding Reath in the light as he works for reconciliation and justice is much appreciated.<br />
Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-27235684025766599742015-04-27T12:05:00.000-07:002015-04-27T12:20:51.766-07:00Words of War<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
Two consecutive Sundays. Two different Monthly Meetings. Two
different states. One remarkably similar message reflecting on the popular
Quaker query making the rounds: “How does your life help to remove the causes
of war?” followed by a reference to “War is not the Answer.” </div>
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Increasingly, I wonder how useful these ruminations serve
Quakerism, especially as they seem to become an increasing part of congregational
vernacular. And when these messages are also proudly displayed to the public, I
wonder whether they are an admonition to others that they should be like us,
and then how much does that help us live our faith. The “causes of war” are so vast and complex,
but war is really, in my mind, simply a part of the spectrum of violence that
includes greed, power, fear, hunger, faith, love, education,
institutionalization, nationalism, rigidity, and religion, just to name a few.
A better query might be something like “What can I do today to break the cycles
of violence?” </div>
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The focus on “war” in these messages raises two thoughts
for me. First, in Quaker circles, the action that often follows is a call to
cut military spending. It is an over-simplification that ignores some of the
realities of our society. If you visit many of the neglected parts of our
country – rural areas as well as urban – you will hear many people say they
want to join the military. This is not because they love war, but because the
military is one of the few legal options many people have to get out of
otherwise dire circumstances where employment and education are scarce and
violence and drugs are rampant. As manufacturing jobs continue to disappear,
there is little else currently on the horizon that is a viable option. In
addition, we should recognize that the military also engages in many
peace-making and emergency rescue operations. Given the small numbers of
Quakers, we might want to engage in building an infrastructure to replace some
of these rather than spending a lot of time, energy, faith and money on the
notion that we can get the politicians running the massive bureaucracy to do
the right thing. It’s a bottom-up approach, but when numbers are small,
sometimes bridge-building and doing the small things can have the greatest
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Then there is the word “war” itself. It is a word that
evokes negative imagery and energy, but in doing so allows us to gloss over all
the ways that we participate in the cultural, environmental and economic
injustices that perpetuate the cycles of violence. “War” is something that is
easy to say others do. Focusing on war has a way of externalizing and,
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war.” As a pacifist, I have come to appreciate that we have to not only
think but act deeper. I do believe in violence. I see it every day, and I abhor
it. The power of Quakerism is not in our stance against war but in the oft-cited belief that “there is that of
God in All”. When we can use this to steel ourselves to compassionately break
down the barriers of classification that serve to divide us from our neighbors
and fellow global community members, we are getting more to the root causes of
violence – the real work of pacifism. Instead of the harsh messages full of
words like “not”, “don’t”, and “war” that affirm little but evoke violent
images, having positive words that invite positive energy and imagery would be
a nice change. Words do matter. </div>
Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-28621319892687055172015-04-20T15:05:00.001-07:002015-04-20T15:05:37.973-07:00"It's so simple"...As spring unfolds, at William Penn House we are in the midst of connecting with the community in a new way for us. Over the past few years, starting with gleaning and then community gardens, we have connected with the urban garden movement. As with any good movement, there needs to be a strong grassroots component that is actively engaged, not simply following the call from outsiders, but transforming things from within and the ground up. Thanks to the leadership of some of our community partners and friends, and seeing the gaps, installing raised garden beds in yards and homes throughout DC is the focus of much of the work we are engaged in this summer, utilizing Quaker Workcamp groups, volunteers and staff.<br />
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After a winter and early spring of prep work (building a space for growing seedlings of primarily collard greens and kale, pre-cutting wood for boxes and beds), last week we started going out into the community. Saturday, April 18, as hundreds of thousands <a href="http://townhall.com/tipsheet/christinerousselle/2015/04/19/national-mall-trashed-after-global-citizen-2015-earth-day-concert-n1987325" target="_blank">trashed the National Mall </a> while "honoring" Earth Day, a group of 20 people joined us less than 5 miles east to slowly scale-up this fledgling garden program. It was an invaluable experience as we were able to work out some of the kinks while getting the work and word out. As our community partner RonDell Pooler said, the vision is to create a food hub in what is now a food desert; this includes the expanding community gardens under RonDell's purview and now the garden beds going into people's yards. <br />
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"It's so simple" reflected one of the participants who joined us from a church in Altoona, PA. While the work to be done is not that simple in terms of economic justice and environmental stewardship, and this work alone won't get it done, it is this kind of work that is necessary to getting it done. This kind of work is really an expression of the Quaker testimony of Simplicity. It is about simple acts (building gardens) can help build bridges between issues (such as nutrition) while building bridges of relationships. As RonDell said, it is this kind of work that can turn food deserts to food hubs, while helping overcome barriers of separation and at the same time developing opportunities (such as green job training) for sustainability.<br />
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Outside a local Friends Meeting, there is a sign asking "How does your life help to remove the causes of War?" I personally think that the focus on "war" can create blindspots to all the causes of violence of which war is merely a part of the spectrum, but I also think that this is the kind of question seasoned pacifists should be able to readily have a list of regularly-engaged actions. For me, this garden project is on that list: it's a simple act that, while addressing hunger and environment, helps to build bridges of healing, compassion and sustainability in a severely fragmented community. Will it end wars? Probably not. Will it help us on that track? The more we can engage folks, the more likely we can say "yes." Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-90465313958119231482015-03-19T07:55:00.000-07:002015-03-19T07:55:33.977-07:00"A Moral Call to Act" includes looking at our actionsWhen I first walked in the door, there was a one-slice pizza box by the front door with a piece of pizza in it. Walking further into the building, there was the expected huge pile of sheets and towels in the hall from the departing guests. There were also garbage cans filled with empty plastic water bottles, and a few stray conference give-away bags, one with full soda cans and a piece of fruit, the other with garbage, sitting on the floor. Upstairs in the guest rooms, there was more of the same, plus the half-drunk mountain dew under one bed and an apple core under another (despite guidelines of no food in the rooms). Lots of bits of garbage all over the place. Among the garbage was left-over training material for the lobbying that was about to take place. The title struck me: "A Moral Call to Act on Climate Change." <br />
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What's wrong with this picture? First of all, the consumption of vast amounts of packaged products that negatively impact climate change both in the production and disposal process. Second, this is an all-too-common phenomenon that I have seen in the lobby/advocacy/service world. Groups get hyper-focused on a target - whether it is a service project or a lobbying issue - but somehow miss the message that integrity also matters. I remember clearly, when I was more involved in HIV/AIDS work, a lobby training where we were specifically given a script and instructed not to mention any concerns about how funding was used. Then, during breaks, a substantial number of the "lobbyists" - many of whom were "consumers" of services (meaning, people living with HIV) would go on smoking breaks, and night times were filled with partying. I am not judging this, but did and still do think that it is perfectly okay to ask people who are dependent on services to perhaps try to live a bit healthier as well. It's not a demand or a requirement, but we can give voice to it. It's called "integrity". Likewise, when groups come to lobby for a better world but leave the place they have stayed in worse shape, is this not really just blame - expecting others to fix a problem that we keep creating? When we lead Quaker Workcamps to New Orleans or West Virginia, to what extent do we do the same every time we use disposable plastic? <br />
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When we use terms like "moral call", I think it is important that we do what we can to make sure the action starts with us. When we advocate and lobby for change, that is political. What we do - where we eat, what we buy, how we leave the place - is our consumption. The world is a better place when our consumerism is more closely aligned with our politics. We will never be perfect, but when we remain as disconnected or even more disconnected, and miss opportunities to practice what we preach, aren't we really just a part of the problem?Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-24995861387276343582015-02-23T11:30:00.000-08:002015-02-23T11:30:00.160-08:00Taxes, Lodging, Faith and Service: a deeper look at the work of William Penn House<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
Thanks to the wonderful world of 21<sup>st</sup> century
social networking, many people now know of some of the
challenges that face William Penn House, <a href="http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local/Quaker-House-Could-Leave-Capitol-Hill-Over-Tax-Exempt-Status-292133421.html?fb_action_ids=10153200038141614&fb_action_types=og.comments" target="_blank">specifically the possible revoking of our property tax exemption.</a> Just to clarify, this does not effect our
sales tax exemption or our status with regards to accepting donations for
charitable purpose. We greatly appreciate so many messages of support, and
hope to harness these to influence the DC government to change this. At the
same time, based on some of the comments, it seems that this is a good time to
help educate the supporting community more about why we are so passionate about
changing this.</div>
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For starters, while it is true that
we are a 30 bed hostel, offering affordable, comfortable and safe housing is not about lodging but is embedded in Quaker values and is an express part of our mission. It is our "Ministry of Presence" in the nation's capital. It is why we talk about it is a practice of "<a href="http://williampennhouse.org/RadicalHospitality" target="_blank">Radical Hospitality</a>" - all are welcome. Lodging is just the starting point. It is what happens around the lodging where the ministry gains traction. Here is some of what happens: </div>
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<li>Young adult internships – giving young adults,
most often recent college graduates, a chance to live in the heart of DC and
continue personal/professional/spiritual development. While interns do have
responsibilities to the hospitality, we also encourage and allow for their
engagement in other pursuits and consider that their “work time”. Examples from
the past include development of Quaker Camps, serving on Quaker committees and
with Quaker organizations (Yearly Meetings, FGC, Pendle Hill, AFSC), and
developing new Meetings and Worship Groups. We also have active representation in working to stop the spread of HIV in DC with service in the HIV Prevention Planning Group. </li>
<li>Gap Year – providing an opportunity for high
school grads who are not sure where to go next to develop independent living
and work skills, as well as vocational/avocational direction. In an era where
college costs are so high, we owe it to the youth to provide viable options for
development.</li>
<li>William Penn Quaker Workcamps. These serve
multiple purposes – education, spiritual formation, outreach, and service. This
section can be a whole pamphlet, but for now just know that these are
ultimately about building bridges between issues, within community, and within
ourselves, paying attention to everything from Quaker testimonies to
neurological development that supports more open learning and mental health. At
the same time, we are committed that these are deeply embedded in the community
rather than created for those who wish to serve. To do this takes time, and
means we – the staff and interns – are a constant presence in the community,
especially when we don’t have Workcamp groups. Integrity demands this of us,
and it takes time. Our involvement in the urban and community garden movement
is how this is playing out right now. And as Friends Schools continue to
explore service learning and Quakerism, these Workcamps and what we learn from
them are (for some) and can (for others) a vital resource. In addition, we
bring back veterans to help run Workcamps, furthering their own development
while expanding the values. </li>
<li>Other regular activities such as weekly yoga
classes and monthly potlucks, as well as providing meeting space for small
non-profits who cannot afford larger spaces but also are doing important work.
Each of these has maintenance costs.</li>
<li>While so many Friends organizations talk about
diversity, racism and intergenerational work, as well as outreach and spiritual
formation, these are all very much a part of the fabric of our being on a daily
basis. It’s truly striving to let our lives speak. </li>
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Income from the lodging subsidizes all of this work. The
staff and interns do much of what we do because it is a passion and a calling,
but each of us also has to make ends meet, as does William Penn House. We have
done a lot to make sure that fees do not exclude participation in Quaker
Workcamps, and this, too, is possible because of the lodging. These are our
values; they flow from our faith; the outcomes are not always quantifiable,
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So where does this leave us? The immediate challenge is the financial burden that stretches our budget, no matter what our options are. If the final decision is we have to pay taxes for the percentage of guests who are not here for service/education purposes (although that is not as easily discernible as it sounds and would add to the administrative work), we can do this moving forward; sadly, this would mean having to
raise rates which, as is always the case, felt more by those with less. Having to come up with the $18k+ is the challenge. We have talked about increasing staff/intern workloads and
reducing salaries to make budget, but how sustainable is that, really? We are already fairly stretched. An influx of new funds is really crucial to keeping our options open and the programs and services vital. (As I write this, we are awaiting the arrival of the plumber to fix the hot water heater - a reminder that a 100 year-old house also has physical needs.)</div>
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Again, we thank you all for your words of support. They
warm us. Your voice in DC can certainly help. More importantly, if you value a
presence like William Penn House not just in DC but as a part of the Society of
Friends bringing Quakerism to the world now and for the future, voices alone
may not be enough. Donations to cover immediate financial needs are necessary,
and, moving to greater sustainability, either organize a Workcamp, make it
possible for others to join or join us yourself on either our Pine Ridge or DC
Workcamp this summer, or invite us to help you with your own challenges of
outreach, spiritual formation and service are other ways to help. These are
what flow from our building, and what give it life beyond the lodging. Please get in touch with Byron (<a href="mailto:Byron@williampennhouse.org">Byron@williampennhouse.org</a>) to
explore more ways to get involved. <br />
-Brad OgilvieBrad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-12747762787567951902015-01-28T12:35:00.000-08:002015-01-30T06:09:34.837-08:00What can be learned "As Way Opens""I never knew that the US violated so many treaties with Indians"<br />
"I learned that Thomas Jefferson brought over many of the invasive plants into Washington DC"<br />
"I learned that we can get more done when we collaborate"<br />
"I learned that gardens help to clean watersheds"<br />
"I learned why Philip's Head screwdrivers are called that" (Thanks, google, for the assist on that one)<br />
"I learned that when rainwater flows off my driveway down the street, it can add to pollution"<br />
"I learned that there is a connection between hunger and violence"<br />
"I learned that William Penn honored his agreements with the Indians, and his sons did not"<br />
"I learned that you don't need to exert a lot of muscle to saw wood"<br />
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What do all these statements have in common? They were the comments of 4th grade students from Sidwell Friends School at the conclusion of spending 4 hours together as part of a William Penn Quaker Workcamp. 22 students and 2 teachers joined us on a wet, rainy/snowy, cold day to start what we look to be a growing collaboration that helps strengthen the fabric of the DC community while addressing issues of nutrition and environment and developing service leaders for the next generation. <br />
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The plan is to nurture service as an expression of Quakerism while giving the students an opportunity to see how all things are interconnected and how small steps are vital for the big things to happen. Specifically, our starting point was to build shelves that will be used for growing seedlings that will go out into community gardens in the spring, and to start cutting wood that will be used for container gardens in yards throughout DC. We started with a group conversation about some connections between gardens, nutrition and the environment, and how these also can be expressions of the Quaker testimonies. And then we got busy with the work for the next two hours, encouraging the students to give input to how to do things while also learning some basic but important skills critical to effective service (being able to measure, saw, connect). It all went as planned.<br />
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But it was what was not planned where some of the real learning happened, as evidenced by the comments above. Few of these were on our list of "learning objectives", but each probably has a deeper imprint and, therefore, longer staying power, because of how it came about: organically, through conversation and curiosity, as way opens, experientially. Many of the points came up as we were working together; others came up in conversations about the various posters and artwork hanging around the house.<br />
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This is what I find so wonderful about William Penn Quaker Workcamps: it is not the big things, the meeting with power and tackling the big issues. It is simply creating spaces for these "conversations that matter" to take place, always with a vision of coming together to make the world a better place. It is not what we teach, but that we create opportunities to engage, enquire, question and learn, that matter. It is exciting to see the seeds of this take place with 4th graders. It gives hope for the future, and excitement to see what takes root and grows. Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-67867636696043908532015-01-21T05:49:00.004-08:002015-01-21T05:49:49.103-08:00"Outside the Gates": Why Diversity won't come from withinI am currently reading "<a href="http://disquiettime.com/" target="_blank">Disquiet Time: Rants and Reflections on the Good Book</a>", a collection of writings edited by Jennifer Grant and Cathleen Falsani. I know both these women through Wheaton College connections, and find their work inspiring as they reflect the growing convergence of deep faith and social liberalism.<br />
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As I move in Quaker circles, I often hear about desires in Friends Meetings and organizations to become more diverse. Dr. Dowdy's writing, for me, affirms that this work is not likely to happen when we-self-segregate in our congregations but out in the world. If we gloss over the word "Christ" in Dowdy's writings (at least those for whom the word does not resonate), and replace the word "Christendom" with "Quakerdom", what pearls of wisdom can Friends take from this that may help us understand why we lack diversity on our benches and pews?<br />
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Last fall, I wrote about an experience where I also felt like running - and in fact did run - from a Quaker gathering where diversity and racism was much a topic of discussion but not much of a reality among the gathered (see a blogpost about that <a href="http://williampennhouse.blogspot.com/2014/10/reflections-on-friends-and-diversity.html" target="_blank">here</a>). It might behoove many Friends who are serious about becoming more a part of a fabric of diversity to move away from called meetings that talk about this and instead go out in the name of fellowship and service. At William Penn House, we welcome you to join us almost any day of the week with an opportunity to do this, or perhaps take a break from your Meeting for Worship and congregate with others. Sit with the discomfort of how you choose where you go, and how much race, color, politics and theology influence your decision-making. Mix it up a bit. Become a part of the healing. Isn't that a gift of Quakerism that can only take place when we venture out as Dowdy calls, "face-to-face and shoulder to shoulder with the grit and grime of a diverse humanity"? It's not going to come to us, but it is there for all to embrace.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-16230603630133011132015-01-15T13:31:00.001-08:002015-01-15T13:32:42.585-08:00How does Quakerism influence Hearts and Minds?It is fairly well-known the political stances of Quakers - especially the liberal, unprogrammed branch - on issues such as energy, the environment, military engagement, and equality. Lobbying on these issues takes up a significant part of Quaker resources - financial as well as human. But how well do we influence people's thinking? I don't mean how much do we influence politics, but how much do we influence the minds of the community that, ultimately, could have greater impact?<br />
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I have often wondered how do we go about "expanding the choir", and an <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/01/15/big-business-lobbying_n_6476600.html" target="_blank">article</a> I read this morning has had me thinking more. The article in question points out that big business, despite the obscene amounts of money it pours into lobbying, spends multiple times more into marketing, advertising and public relations not on its products but on the issues. It's why we see warm and fuzzy ads for natural gas and it's why we see Walmart as a sponsor of NPR programs. They are strategically influencing minds - literally infiltrating and altering the way people think that will ultimately influence how they act and vote.<br />
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But what do Friends do to counteract this, and why should we do it? Unlike big business, we do not have as clear an end game such as increased sales and profits. Big business is so good at this game that they can influence people to act against their own well-being and better judgment, something we are all susceptible to everytime our materials does not match our politics. But we do have some fairly clear goals and objectives - a more just world, a cleaner environment, greater diversity. In almost any Quaker circle you step in, one if not all of these will fairly quickly emerge, and you will also fairly quickly get connected to the work of AFSC and/or FCNL as the outlet for these. The question remains, for me, however: "What influences are we having on our neighbors, especially those who are not of 'like-mind?'"<br />
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As we start to gear up for another election-cycle, and coming off the heels of a troubling last cycle (where, like business, politicians were effective in getting people to keep them in power despite the fact that less than 20% of voters are happy with what we have), perhaps Friends should consider at least adding to the repertoire of how we seek to make an imprint on things, if not directly influence them. Rather than gobbling up candidate signs and bumper stickers, or having more called meetings where we self-segregate and consider what to do, or putting more "War is not the Answer" signs on our lawns and care, we should practice in the art of fellowship where we listen to others with open hearts, challenging our own comforts and assumptions. This does not mean we drop all the other stuff we do, but perhaps that we take time to do something different for a week or two and then see if new possibilities and new allies emerge. It's really about using Quaker process in new arenas, which also means that we would not be telling others how we are led by spirit, but how simply listening for spirit can influence all of us. This is how we are approaching the upcoming Quaker Workcamp season. We invite others to join us and perhaps reallocate how and where they spend precious human capital, and see if, as we have found, this experience re-news faith and hope and re-energizes us for the work to be done. Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-6075572153834772472014-12-05T14:12:00.000-08:002014-12-05T14:14:05.051-08:00Musings on Religion, gay rights, HIV and systemic change<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
I was recently having a conversation with an ethics and
communications professor from a Christian college. We had been informal
colleagues about a decade ago, and developed deep admiration for each other
despite some differences of opinions and beliefs about gay rights. What I
always admired about Ken was that he never shut down conversations. He had me speak to his classes a few times about HIV and gay rights, always being honest about his
beliefs but really encouraging others to find their own way and connecting back
to their own beliefs and values. It was working with people like Ken that
deepened my own sense of Quakerism and the belief that there really is that of
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As we were catching up, Ken was sharing with me his
university’s current healthy challenges to try and be a presence for students
of the 21<sup>st</sup> century – not just who are more open to the lesbian/gay
community (I’m not sure where they are with regards to the transgender
community), but also with a generation that has different sexual morality than
20 years ago – while staying true to the university’s Biblical teachings. He
stated it is a good healthy discussion, but not easy as people have deeply held
beliefs and ideologies, and there are also many hurts both from the past and
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Then we turned to my current work, especially as it
relates to HIV since that was what brought us together. I told him about my
on-going efforts to bring about change as best I can with the HIV/AIDS system
in the era of self-testing. I related recent experiences of finally getting a prevention
planning group I am a part of to talk about self-testing, and about the
institutional rigidity to not acknowledge that self-testing is out there (as
evidenced by the fact that few HIV organizations tell their clients about it in
person or on websites despite the fact that they are readily available and 1.5
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Ken shook his head and said he doesn’t understand what
the big deal is and what all the resistance is about. I reflected that I suspect some of it is not
that dissimilar from what he was relating with regards to the university; that
there is an ideological belief about HIV testing that is deep, at one point was
THE only way to engage in testing, and is not used to being questioned. This is
a collectively-held belief that has been culturally indoctrinated throughout
the world as evidenced by the fact that, when I post articles and opinions
about HIV and self-testing that challenge the status quo, the push-backs are always
the same from all over the world. While sincere, many of these push-backs
(people need counseling, linkage-to-care, people will hurt themselves) are not
backed up by facts. They are beliefs that are firmly held, have not been
questioned or challenged until now, and do not easily adapt to modern times
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This has made me a bit more aware of how we can so easily
embrace an ideology that we don’t even see it. When we don’t take time to
appreciate the struggle to change to meet the times, and think people should
just “get over it”, we do a great disservice. But when we can stay committed to
each other with deep respect as we struggle to change, we will all benefit.
Whether it has to do with religious beliefs and gay rights, or self-testing for
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Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-92032522349976541232014-10-19T15:42:00.000-07:002014-10-20T05:00:23.807-07:00Reflections on Friends and DiversityThis past week, I was at a gathering of Friends. One of the energized topics was "diversity." Truth be told, I cringe when I hear this topic come up. I have usually heard it talked about while sitting with an overwhelmingly white, middle-class, well-meaning group in some kind of a conference or symposium setting. Too often, the emphasis seems to be on external characteristics (skin color), while ignoring long-standing power and economic factors that make this a more complex issue. This was no different. As seems to be the pattern, there was some hand-wringing, self-effacing acknowledgment of work to be done, and recognition that it is a tough topic to talk about, let alone act on.<br />
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Then, this morning, I attended service at an Evangelical church. I went as I was in the neighborhood, and felt led there rather than Quaker Meeting as I had just spent a few days with Friends and wanted a change of pace. To be clear, there is much of the message of this church about salvation, baptism and true believers "need to do all of this" that I struggle with, let alone the fact that the most vocal, well-funded and powerful people working to deny my rights as a gay man share this ideology. But I also know some of this church community through my work and fellowship in DC, find them very welcoming and inspiring, and I have a deep respect for other parts of their message, their work, their witness and their faith.<br />
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As I sat in the church waiting for the service to start, I noticed people of many cultures - black, white, Asian, Hispanic - coming in as individuals and couples. Up front, there was a group of people communicating through sign language. People came from a real cross-section of cultures and economies. If there was one noticeable lacking of diversity, it was age. Most people were in their 20's and 30's - a stark difference from most Quaker gatherings. The main message of the morning was about having faith transcend fear so that we go out into the world truly living our faith. "Peace" was an integral part of that message. <br />
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So I have to ask myself: "What is going on here." Quakers have a long history of being on the forefront of the rights movements from abolition to civil rights, women's rights, and gay rights. That is certainly our past, but it clearly is not our present. Just look at HIV/AIDS. There was a time that Friends were actively involved, but as the devastation moved from the ostensibly white gay male into the African-American community, Friends efforts subsided. What happened to the passion for justice for all?<br />
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We can not simply rest on the past and continue to consider ourselves "progressives." When it comes to race, we might take comfort that we are progressives because we do not have prejudice in our hearts, but our actions do not match our words. I suspect some may think we are progressives because we are not the blatant racists, and we see no one ahead of us. This is probably because true progressives are so far ahead they are getting read to lap us, but we choose to think they are still behind us.<br />
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The question is: can our faith steel us to transcend our fear, step through our walls of segregation and get out into the community? Our stances on political issues can no longer be the barometer of our "progressiveness." We need to get out there, letting our belief that there is that of God in All guide us to new places, new relationships and new friendships. Talking about diversity in closed-community meetings is not going to get it done, and it's not living our faith.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-73354310206152405012014-09-18T12:38:00.000-07:002014-09-18T12:38:22.973-07:00"To Love and Hate Life at the Same Time"I attended a Meeting for Worship recently at a Quaker school. The first message was given by a youth facing a serious, life-threatening medical condition. His message was powerful, but laced with humor as well. The more serious part of the message was what to do with the question of what it is like to live with a life-threatening condition. In his wisdom, he stated that it is not easy to understand this experience unless one has faced death him/herself - "to love and hate life at the same time." <br />
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For the rest of the Meeting and the rest of the day, that term "to love and hate life at the same time" flowed through me almost like fresh air. Since being told more than 20 years ago that I had perhaps 5 years to live and have greatly exceeded that expectation, my own journey has included explorations of mortality, life, soul, death and perhaps most importantly, fear of death. I have read and written much about these from academic, spiritual and experiential vantage points. I have seen lengthy theories and essays on the topic. But never have I heard it put so succinctly: "to love and hate life at the same time."<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTwdSvZAwvmN4aYSpqXHkk7xMrArdfS3_7UeBrtoTi3WpjbFKJhSUKZXYCKXyHHT9wwjbjQ12AT82uTLeGvwhqHBZyBa_xjg35GZnbThoxraVb1-Mny1SuecyDY73kTHc-HQKdgyVJyCQ/s1600/love.hate.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTwdSvZAwvmN4aYSpqXHkk7xMrArdfS3_7UeBrtoTi3WpjbFKJhSUKZXYCKXyHHT9wwjbjQ12AT82uTLeGvwhqHBZyBa_xjg35GZnbThoxraVb1-Mny1SuecyDY73kTHc-HQKdgyVJyCQ/s1600/love.hate.jpg" /></a>I think many of us walk around with lots of love and lots of fear which can come across as being in the vicinity of hate. People who preach against gay rights, for example, are often labeled as "haters" even though they could very well be fueled by love for their Bible, their faith and their fear that if they don't do what they can to bring rightness to the world, they too will suffer the consequences. Then we, in turn, perhaps channel some of our own hatred to them for other reasons. The point is that we spend a lot of time compartmentalizing the ways we objectify "love" and "hate" to somehow create a buffer zone of safety from dealing with the complexity of both of these emotions. Facing death, as this young man so clearly articulated, does not allow for us to compartmentalize; we are forced to confront how much we love life and how much we hate knowing that it will all come to an end someday, no matter what our circumstances are. <br />
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One of the Quaker testimonies is "Simplicity." For issues as complex as life and death, I don't know that there could be a more simple message to sum it up than to understand that our human condition is one where we have to learn to love and hate life at the same time. Trying to keep them separate only creates internal and external conditions. When we see that we can actually do both, perhaps we will all be better no matter what comes. Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-999910345801824492014-08-19T06:54:00.002-07:002014-08-26T04:31:13.531-07:00Quaker Workcamps: After 4 days, change really does happen.I started participating in Quaker Workcamps about four years ago. I noticed a pattern after having experienced multi-day Workcamps: sometime around the 4th day, something shifted. It has been hard to clearly articulate it, other than to say that the group came together, shifting from being individuals to becoming a community. This was true regardless of location. It wasn't just that we became a community, but the relationships that developed during Workcamps have lasted. Strong bonds have been formed. Previous posts on this site have reflected on this (such as <a href="http://williampennhouse.blogspot.com/2010/12/friends-and-patience-rushing.html" target="_blank">here</a> and <a href="http://williampennhouse.blogspot.com/2013/04/moving-from-crisis-to-sustainability.html" target="_blank">here</a>).<br />
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Last week, I was taking a class titled "The Whole Brain Child." The instructor, <a href="http://www.tinabryson.com/" target="_blank">Dr. Tina Bryson</a>, commented on the first day that she is a big fan of week-long summer camps because they give youth an opportunity to open up new neural pathways in the brain, bringing balance and integration to the various parts of the brain, and to form new attachments. She commented that the research shows that all of these things happen within a relatively short period of time - a few days. For the class purposes, we were looking at the implications of this when working in clinical settings with youth and adults for whom neural integration and attachment are not healthy and balanced. For me, there was the added "ah hah!" that this is what I have seen happen on Workcamps.<br />
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The implications for this are fantastic. To start, there is the issue of how, when we segregate ourselves to be among "like-minded" people, we are likely to be hardening neural pathways that don't allow us to easily see the truths of others or fully engage in life in healthy ways. For Friends, I see this as a challenge we need to address. If we are to truly believe that there is that of God in All, but we tend to be fairly partisan in our social actions while spending time among like-minded people, our brain does not stay open and integrated, and the emotional amygdala gets activated when we hear discord, leading to a shut-down of higher level thinking. So what we need to do is to more actively engage in experiences that allow us to work through this.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6SnGwxCH4cGFPZXlxDevXRsIWIj1uzBK_K-DTYhVFJRDlTkmJDECn4Hob1QmLUtL7PeB2ig6SxS0rdeB2FF0nfy6doUl2VdyXWbPzuzAJWJh2T9KKh72jB0n9JgS7AFxiRQ5rssr8II0/s1600/Mr.Brown.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6SnGwxCH4cGFPZXlxDevXRsIWIj1uzBK_K-DTYhVFJRDlTkmJDECn4Hob1QmLUtL7PeB2ig6SxS0rdeB2FF0nfy6doUl2VdyXWbPzuzAJWJh2T9KKh72jB0n9JgS7AFxiRQ5rssr8II0/s1600/Mr.Brown.jpg" height="150" width="200" /></a>This is where Quaker Workcamps come in - especially the multi-day Workcamps as we run them at William Penn House. We consciously take time to be with people that are on the surface different from us, but do so from a place of equality rather than service (where roles are defined between server and the served). We overcome anxieties by going places we are told are unsafe, and experientially see that things are not as we have been told. This is where the integration starts, and continues as we play, work, reflect, converse, eat and sleep. And then there is the time factor. We take time for these processes to take root and new, lasting relationships to be formed. We do all of this as we look at issues of social, economic and environmental justice. The next step, as we have started more this year, is to have participants of these programs take on leadership roles - furthering the process of healthy integration and attachment.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEintWP3lUf0r3FqOyxriDxYMoZtlI1J5jz7TVZHZrKwAEGnb8mYq05qVmYJ-1xytEL-nCDGIoWz5JpWYBtmRbHFfqIungmMt2Ly3kebn3g6X7Z6A9AWUruHKBxjIpdjQCvUnyHv_IESMe0/s1600/IMG_7819.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEintWP3lUf0r3FqOyxriDxYMoZtlI1J5jz7TVZHZrKwAEGnb8mYq05qVmYJ-1xytEL-nCDGIoWz5JpWYBtmRbHFfqIungmMt2Ly3kebn3g6X7Z6A9AWUruHKBxjIpdjQCvUnyHv_IESMe0/s1600/IMG_7819.JPG" height="200" width="150" /></a>None of this is the full explanation of what happens. It does not exclude the possibility that higher powers are at play. It simply brings empirical evidence to validate what we have seen anecdotally and intuitively. But that is huge in our world of skepticism and proven outcomes. It validates the role that Quaker Workcamps can play in our spiritual formation, outreach, community building and peace/justice work. Most importantly, as we support creativity, critical thinking, collaboration and community, new ideas and actions for a more just peaceful world can emerge. They might not be exactly what we envisioned, but just like when the brain has all aspects engaged utilizing what they do best, the more we can be engaged with others despite our differences, the better off we all will be. Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-77202899303170520572014-08-08T09:53:00.000-07:002014-08-08T18:53:20.686-07:00Mindfulness, Simplicity, Fear and Quaker WorkcampsI just finished reading the book "Mindfulness" by Harvard professor Ellen Langer. The premise is that mindfulness is much more than a meditative state of consciousness; it is an awareness of choices, and that things have different meanings in different contexts. One of her main themes is that we often live mindlessly, having assumptions about people, places and things because of the way we have been raised. We can see this in the divisive nature of our culture and the assumptions we make about people with differing opinions. We see it in the way we are led by polls and community conversations that give limited options, leading us to think these are the only options. Her research supports that when people are actively engaged and have many options, they are more likely to stay engaged, to be optimistic, to be healthier and to even live longer. <br />
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Much of her writing is in sync with what we strive to accomplish with Washington Quaker Workcamps. We talk often about options and opportunities, instead of problems. We talk often about the importance of the journey, not the destination. A guideline is that there are not mistakes, only opportunities to learn. By walking to places, we encourage practicing mindfulness about our surroundings. Through reflection and action, we change the context within which we see ourselves in the world. All of this is intended to create safe spaces for participants - mostly youth - to see the world as one of opportunities to be embraced and for them to see their own gifts in embracing them.<br />
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Two common challenges we run into when planning and running Workcamps that are also reflected in Langer's work are fear and control. They usually go hand-in-hand, and the result is that they often lead to more mindlessness rather than mindfulness. The desire to create and follow a set schedule blocks our ability to engage in what is going on in the moment. The fear of upsetting parents can lead to limited options of service - revolving around perceived needs or around false senses of security such as only doing service that guarantees nothing bad can happen. Not only do these limit the experiences and learning opportunities of the participants, I think they are also doing a disservice by not allowing the youth to actively look at options and make (or at least influence) decisions by engaging in the process of weighing factors such as personal hunger and personal risk. It does not adequately prepare them to deal with these things as they head off to post-high school lives where the supervision is far less.<br />
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In 1 Peter 3: 13-22, the message is about not letting fear stop us from doing what is right, but to also have good reasoning for doing what is right. At Washington Quaker Workcamps, we do not shy away from conversations about the role that fear and control play in guiding daily action, and how these can lead us to be negligent in our responsibilities. A fear that a teen may hurt him/herself by climbing a ladder or using a power tool does not adequately prepare that youth for when he/she is no longer at home. Likewise, concerns that a parent might be upset because his/her youth has to wait 2 hours for dinner while preparing food for homeless people is not a reason to avoid the important experiences and lessons about justice and privilege that are at the root of so many service programs, and a fear of being in close proximity to homeless people who may have mental illness should lead to conversations about how we make assumptions about people and things we have not experienced rather than not going to a fellowship breakfast of mostly homeless folks. <br />
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The Quaker Testimony of "Simplicity" is one of the ways to break down some of this fear and control. "Simplicity", in this context, is in the Benedictine tradition of striving to let go of assumptions of what we have been told about other people or places so we can be open to seeing what is with our own eyes. When we tell people that certain neighborhoods in our own town are unsafe (even though we may send them to places just as unsafe in other cities or countries), we perpetuate closed assumptions rather than open wonder. When we engage with something or place that is new to us, our eyes are open. The right thing to do is to engage, create, collaborate, and inspire curiosity, not to perpetuate fear through assumptions. It is not only right for the benefit of Quaker Workcamp participants, but it is right for bringing greater justice and peace to the world.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664821601466952220.post-63401231329534706792014-03-31T17:44:00.000-07:002014-04-04T19:03:57.395-07:00"They don't care about us."These were the words spoken to me by Mr. Harold Brown, a life-long resident of New Orleans. We were standing on the lawn of his newly-built but not finished and already falling apart house, thanks in no small part to corrupt government practices from local to national levels, to corrupt contractors, and to sleezy family members. Mr. Brown is 68 years old, losing his vision, and has no where else to go. Katrina wiped out his livelihood - a fish market business and 10-unit apartment building and after a few years living in Houston in a flop-house (at $75/night) and paying $10 for meals (subsidized by FEMA money that finally ran out), he returned to his house only to find everything inadequate.<br />
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I don't have easy answers to any of this. I do know that I have to be careful about simply nodding my head and saying "yes they don't care" without taking a deep look at how much I really care as demonstrated by my actions. I can demand that "they" put more funding into programs, but money was a major part of the corruption as it wound its way through the system with little reaching the ground. I can demand that the corporate exploiters of the region (oil, mostly) clean up their act, but I too like my lights and heat. I know that I can do more to raise awareness, to call on all of us to look around us to see where we might be fooling ourselves as we align with people in these kinds of circumstances. Even as I attended a Quaker Meeting the Sunday after returning from NOLA, I could not help but notice that, out of 100 people in attendance, the lack of economic and racial diversity is jarring. Is this a true reflection of what it means to care?<br />
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In the Book of John, Chapter 9 in the Bible, there is the story of Jesus restoring sight to a blind man. There is a back-and-forth with the Pharisees about whether it was the blind man or his parents who were the sinners that caused the blindness, or whether Jesus had devilish powers because of his ability to restore sight. Ultimately, what Jesus reminds us is this: it is not a sin to be blind. The sin is to claim to see. So, while I can see Mr. Brown's point that "they don't care", I have to be careful not to overlook my own part in this. It is a blindspot that I might take comfort in, but it is one that will blind me to seeing the hard work, personal commitments and sacrifices we must make to bring justice to these kinds of situations. It is humbling that it takes the words of a man losing his sight for me to try and open mine.Brad Ogilvie/The William Penn House/The Mosaic Initiativehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17229228501877444698noreply@blogger.com0